Ya know, when I interact with people, they have just one chance to impress me as a good person (as I do with them). When I used (prior to lock-down), to go into a convenience store to buy lottery tickets, I would always say, " Hi, how ya doin.". I expect them to be somewhat cheerfull in their reply. Here's an example. I live within walking distance of a convenience store, and I walked in there to buy tickets, and said "Hi, how ya doin". I got no reply. I haven't been in there since. I do, however, drive a mile away to buy them soley because the clerks are cheerfull, friendly, and interact with me.
The 1st store is run buy (what I think) is either a Indian or Pakistani person. The 2nd store is run by Asians, and I will continue to patronize that store. My hairdresser is either Korean, Chinese, Japanese, or other, but I don't care because she is good at what she does and is friendly.
I don't patronize the 1st store because of their race, but, because of their attitude.
True story. When My 2nd eldest daughter was about to remarry for the 2nd time, she brought her prospective husband over for the 1st time. I didn't like him from the get-go as he was and still is a bum. I didn't go to the wedding. They have since separated. He had his one chance and blew it.
In short, we're all friends here, but I don't think I'd want to meet any of you . I did meet a member once, never met him again.