Rocket-1 Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 Just going through a rough period in my life right now... just looking for anyone to cheer me up really, success stories or something I've been with my girlfriend for a while and she had a little girl with another man before me and now he's coming back to haunt me and destroy my relationship... I know it's probably not the best place to talk about this, but sometimes reading other people life experience helps and at this point i'll take pretty much anything! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rondalsf Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 Just going through a rough period in my life right now... just looking for anyone to cheer me up really, success stories or something I've been with my girlfriend for a while and she had a little girl with another man before me and now he's coming back to haunt me and destroy my relationship... I know it's probably not the best place to talk about this, but sometimes reading other people life experience helps and at this point i'll take pretty much anything! Sorry to hear this dude. I haven't been through this but I just wanted to say whenever you want to talk I'm here. If this thread gets closed just pm me. Anyone else can help him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rocket-1 Posted January 22, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 I don't see why they would close this thread.... and thank you habs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiprusoffk Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 Just going through a rough period in my life right now... just looking for anyone to cheer me up really, success stories or something I've been with my girlfriend for a while and she had a little girl with another man before me and now he's coming back to haunt me and destroy my relationship... I know it's probably not the best place to talk about this, but sometimes reading other people life experience helps and at this point i'll take pretty much anything! This really sucks. So sorry to hear this. The only advice I can give you (this is through experince) is no matter how hard it may be, is to do what is best for YOU in the long run. If you try to do whats good for everybody else, you are more than likely to get burned in the end. Unfortunately people do take advantage of situations and when you are no longer of use to the situation, they will cast you aside. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Go4It Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 Just going through a rough period in my life right now... just looking for anyone to cheer me up really, success stories or something I've been with my girlfriend for a while and she had a little girl with another man before me and now he's coming back to haunt me and destroy my relationship... I know it's probably not the best place to talk about this, but sometimes reading other people life experience helps and at this point i'll take pretty much anything! I learned years ago to never again date a woman who had a child, I was only 18 at the time and I thought well its not her fault the jerk left her, but he would come around to drop off his check.. then one day i come home from work and walk in on them. That crushed me and because of that I would never again put myself in that type of situation. Recently a buddy of mine was beginning to date a woman with 3 kids each from a different father. I told him not to, but he wouldn't listen and he ended up getting burned. All she wanted him for was to help pay the bills and when a guy with more money came along she moved on. I know it is hard though because the most beautiful women are hit on the most and usually will have a kid or two but in the rules of the dating game there are strict rules to adhere. It sux man and I feel for you really, but the best thing you can do is get away from the situation. I can give you sympathy and tell you things will work out if she loves you, but the other man will always be in her life and you don't need to put yourself through the heart ache or drama. If it is hurting you then it is unhealthy and just walk away. Chances are the dead beat father will leave her again and then she'll come crying back to you, but you dont need that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Antonio20066 Posted January 22, 2010 Report Share Posted January 22, 2010 Just going through a rough period in my life right now... just looking for anyone to cheer me up really, success stories or something I've been with my girlfriend for a while and she had a little girl with another man before me and now he's coming back to haunt me and destroy my relationship... I know it's probably not the best place to talk about this, but sometimes reading other people life experience helps and at this point i'll take pretty much anything! Sometimes it works out. My girlfriend had a child with another man before me, putting me in your situation. Same thing.....deadbeat Ex refused to pay support; always tried to stir up trouble..... If you love her and she loves you, then remain strong in your relationship. It worked out for me. My girlfriend and I ended up married. I have a wonderful family as a result. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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